Palmer Family Cemetery
Palmer Family Cemetery
Central Hampstead, Queens Co., NB


Updates and Photos by Betty Damery 2002


Record by Murray Slipp Thomson, Saint John West, NB (annotated in blue scrip)
  On lot 9, in Central Hampstead, between Highway 102 and the west bank of the River Saint John, is the Palmer Family Cemetery.  Seventy-two people are known to be buried there, with thirty-five tombstones and five unmarked graves.  It can't be seen from either the highway or the river, but can be seen clearly from the north kitchen window of the ten room Palmer homestead built in 1835, after the Loyalist log cabin burned.  It is a well kept cemetery.

There are four United Empire Loyalist known to be buried there:
William Lawrence  1739 - 1809 has a field stone.
Marcus Palmer, Sr.  1767 - 1822
Mrs. Marcus Palmer - Ann Slocum  1771 - 1848
Lambert Stockford  b. 1772 is in an unmarked grave.
    It is extremely probable that another Loyalist is buried there, but there is no record there of her grave.  Where else could Mary, the mother of Marcus Palmer and widow of William Lawrence be buried? Six of the seven sons of the Loyalist Nancy Ann Slocum and Marcus Palmer are buried in the family cemetery. The identical tombstones of three of the brothers make a striking outline against the sky.

PALMER      Daniel          Stephen         Marcus, Jr.
                1798-1867       1802-1872       1793-1873

    In his will, Stephen Palmer set a half acre aside as a cemetery with access to it at all times. The tombstones and records of people buried here are arranged alphabetically.
 
 

Camera icon BALMAIN - John H. Balmain  1858 - 1921 (Was Mrs. Bruce Palmer's brother.)
Camera icon CARROL - Edward Carrol  1844 - 1896
His wife Mariah  1843 - 1912
Camera icon CARROLL - Edward W. Carroll 1896 - 1944 (son)
George R. Carroll  1871 - 1948 
Camera icon DAVIS - John Davis  d. 25 Dec 1870 ae 88 yrs, Native of London, England
His wife Mary  d. 22 Mar 1878, Native of Hibernia, Queens County (Mary DeLong)
    John Davis, Sr. (1782 England - 1870 NB) was born in London, England, but he was farming in Hampstead, Queens County, NB, when he chose a wife of Loyalist stock.  John DeLong had fought in the Loyal American Regiment.  On 12 Oct 1826, Rev. Samuel P. Clarke, rector of  Saint John Anglican Church, in Gagetown, in the
presence of Hugh Davis and Jesse London, married John Davis and Mary DeLong.  Both lived in the Parish of Hampstead.  When Rector Clark baptized their children he recorded the children's birth dates:  Sep 1828 Sarah Davis - Rector Clarke's 63rd baptism / Jul 1830 Thomas Davis / 4 Jul 1838 John Davis, Jr. / Elenor
Camera icon LAWRENCE. - Willliam   1739 - 1808 ae 69 years 
    This hand-carved fieldstone marker is that of the Loyalist William Lawrence.  William Lawrence  (1739 NY - 1808 NB) was from Dutchess County, New York.  In 1771 he married the widow Mrs. Mary Palmer and became the step-father of three year old Marcus Palmer. William Lawrence fought for six years of the Revolutionary War in DeLancey's Brigade.
LOWERY. - Mrs James Lowery has a field stone marking her grave.  It is not carved.  Mr. & Mrs. James Lowery separated. He went to the USA and no one ever heard of him again.  [She was a Kirkup.]
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MERRITT - Sarah Emmer w/o Israel Merritt  d. 13 Dec 1875 ae 40 yrs 3 mos / Dear as thou art and justly dear / We will not weep for thee / One thought shall check the starting tear / It is that thou art free (Sarah Emmer Palmer, Stephen, Marcus Palmer, Sr. U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Arlie L. Palmer 1902 - 1990
His wife Gertrude I. PARKER 1905 - 1988
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PALMER - Albert Palmer  d. 17 Nov 1894 ae 54 yrs 
 (side) h/w Sheloa Ann (Durgan)  1842 - 1932 / Minnie Reud d/o Albert & Sheloa Palmer / 22 Feb 1869 - 18 Sep 1869 (Albert Palmer, Stephen, Marcus Palmer Sr. U.E.) (Sheloa Durgan, Thomas Durgan)
Camera icon PALMER - Alonzo Palmer  d. 10 Nov 1885 (an iron marker)(Alonzo Palmer, William Sr, Marcus Sr. U.E.)
PALMER - B. S. Palmer  d. 25 May 1909 ae 75 yrs (Benjamin Sunderland Palmer, Stephen, Marcus Sr. U.E.)
PALMER - Sarah (McAlpine) w/o B. S. Palmer  d. 22 Mar 1900 ae 75 yrs (Sarah McAlpine, Peter McAlpine, Charles, Sr. U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Sarah beloved wife of Daniel Palmer d 6 April 1873 ae 26 years & 9 mos
Daniel Palmer 1837 - 1908
Camera icon PALMER - Beverly R. Palmer  1851 - 1931 
His wife Lina P. Wasson  1874 - 1931
Their children:  Ethel Pearl  1901 - 1906 
Myrtle Ruth  1905 - 1911
Mildred Evelyn  1912 - 1922 (Beverly Robinson Palmer, Joseph Sr., Marcus Sr. U.E.) (Lina P. Wasson, Joseph S, Charles Wasson, b. Ireland)
Camera icon PALMER - Ruth A. (Clark - 1st) wife of Bradford Palmer / d. 26 Oct 1876 ae 26 yrs (Ruth Adelia Clark, Benjamin Clark)
Bradford Palmer  d. 2 Sep 1910 ae 73 yrs (Bradford Palmer, Marcus Palmer Jr, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Judson W.  d. 17 Feb 1883 ae 2 yrs s/o Bradford & Adelaide (McAlpine)Palmer/Sweet little spirit thou art gone / Thy loss we deeply feel. / But one thought will check the starting tear / To think thou art forever free.
Camera icon PALMER - E. Bruce Palmer  1860 - 1935 
His wife Mary B Palmer (Balmain) 1854 - 1935
Dau.  Alice M. Palmer  1894 - 1937 (Bruce Palmer, Stephen, William Sr, Marcus Sr, U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Daniel Palmer  22 Aug 1798 - 7 Jan 1867 (Daniel Palmer, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
PALMER - Daniel Palmer  d. 6 Apr 1873 ae 26 yrs 9 mos / Daniel Palmer  1837 - 1908 (Daniel Palmer, Stephen, Marcus Sr, U.E.)
PALMER - Daniel Palmer (unmarked grave) (Daniel Palmer, Lawrence, William Sr., Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Edgar B. (Blanchard)1865 - 1944
His wife Annie Lacey  1875 - 1966 
Their son Waldo  1912 - 1913 (Edgar Blanchard Palmer, Benjamin, Stephen, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Fred W. Palmer  1870 - 1957
his wife Bertha SLIPP  1879 - 1926
Fred W. (Jr.)  1912 - 1913 (Fred W. Palmer, Bradford, Marcus Jr, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - George M. Palmer 27 Aug 1930 - 19 May 2002
His wife Greta M. Boulter 18 Dec 1932 -
Camera icon PALMER - George Palmer  d. 19 Oct 1906 ae 68 yrs 
Christian (McAlpine)w/o George Palmer  d. 5 Mar 1888 ae 37 yrs 
Gone from earth to heaven.(George Palmer, Marcus Jr., Marcus Sr., U.E.) (Christian McAlpine, John, Charles, Peter McAlpine, U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - George Norman Palmer  1873 - 1942 (George Norman Plamer, Albert, Stephen, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Hilda Caroline 1900 - 1919 d/o J. Isaac Palmer & Annarilla M. Palmer (Crocker) (Hilda, Isaac, Stephen, Wm. Sr., Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PARLMER - Jacob Sunderlin Parlmer  d. 20 Feb 1818 in his 13th yr (Jacob Sunderlin Palmer, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Jacob S. Palmer  1852 - 1922 
His wife (Rebecca Coes / wife's name never carved on stone)
His Dau Bessie E. MacDonald  1885 - 1922 (Jacob Palmer, Lawrence, William Sr., Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PALMER - Joseph S. Palmer  1800 - 1879 
His wife Sarah Connor  1812 - 1854
Their Dau. Nancy  1832 - 1898 (Joseph Sunderland Palmer, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
PALMER - Mary Ann Fisher & Lawrence Palmer, Jr. (fieldstone) (Lawrence Palmer Jr, Lawrence Sr., William, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon PARLMER - Marcus Parlmer  d. 28 Apr 1822 ae 55 yrs
Camera icon PARLMER - Ann Parlmer (Nancy Ann Slocum) d. 11 Feb 1848 ae 77 yrs (Nancy Ann Slocum, UE; Ebenezer, UE; Charles, Ebenezer, Eleizer, Giles Slocum.)
Camera icon PALMER - Marcus Palmer (Jr.)  d. 27 Feb 1873 ae 79 yrs 5 mos 14 days 
h/w Julia Ann (Coy)  d. 3 Jul 1876 ae 66 yrs (Marcus Palmer, Jr; Marcus Sr., U.E.) (Julia Ann Coy; Rev.Benjamin Coy, Edward Coy Pre-Loyalist from CT)
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PALMER - Sarah A. wife of B.S. Palmer who died 22 March 1900 aged 75 years
PALMER - In memory of B.S. Palmer who died 25 May 1909 aged 75 years
PALMER - Stephen Palmer  d. 22 Sep 1872 ae 69 yrs 10 mos 23 days / h/w Phebe (Coy)  d. 21 Nov 1888 ae 71 yrs / Dearest Father Thou Has Left Us / Here they loss we deeply feel / But tis God that hath bereft us / He can all our sorrows feel. (Stephen Palmer, Marcus Sr, U.E.) (Phebe Coy, Rev.Benjamin Coy, Edward Coy - Pre-Loyalist from CT)
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PALMER - Stephen  d. 1910 ae 81 yrs 
His wife Mary Sanburn  d. 2 Apr 1907 ae 72 yrs 
Their Dau. Frances A. Palmer  d. 3 Apr 1865 ae 3 years(Stephen Palmer, Wm. Sr., Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon In Memory of William L who died 22 Apr 18??  ae 22 yrs & 4 mos
PALMER - Thomas Palmer / wife Phoebe McConchie / brother Daniel Palmer (Thomas Palmer, Lawrence, William Sr, Marcus Sr., U.E.)
Camera icon REID - Leonard  1864 - 1938
His wife Mabel Carle  1876 - 1901 
Baby Bessie  1894 - 1894
ROSS - David Ross (unmarked grave) (He was a hired man on the Bruce Palmer farm. He worked and lived there until he died at an advanced age. He is buried in an unmarked grave in the Palmer Cemetery.
Camera icon STOCKFORD - Lambert Stockford   1772 - 1853 
Wives ___________ SANBURN
Catherine KELLY
(Lambert Stockford was a United Empire Loyalist, who fought in DeLancey's Brigade is in an unmarked grave in the Palmer Family Cemetery.)
Camera icon WASSON - Julia B. PALMER wife of Charles H. Wasson  Born 7 May 1871 - 19 May 1912 
Dtr Elva C. born 29 Sep 1897 and died 9 July 1917
1868 - 1946 (Charles H. Wasson ) & daughters:  Ina  1890
WILSON - Noah Wilson  (unmarked grave)
Modified: April 4, 2003