ALMOST A PIONEER: WHEELER HISTORY

 

By

 

Mrs. Joseph Patton Davis (Eliza Jane Wheeler)

 

Notes © Copyright 2006 William R. Hurst

 


INTRODUCTION

 

The following document was written by my grand aunt, Mrs. Joseph Patton Davis, who was born Eliza Jane Wheeler in Wythe County, Virginia, in 1865. I’ve always heard her called Aunt Jennie and will so refer to her in the notes.

 

I have two different versions of this document. One version begins with a genealogy page which has a handwritten title “Wheeler History”; the other ends with that page. I will point out the other minor differences in the notes. Copies of the document were handed down in at least three branches of her father’s family. I have not found the original. Descendants of Aunt Jennie do not have the original and did not even have a copy.

 

I have used material from many sources to annotate this document. I’ve received much information from present and past cousins of mine and Aunt Jennie, especially Louise Kuster, Becki Gunn, Joe Branson, Bill Wheeler, Rufus Wheeler, and Helen Stoller. My annotation is an ongoing project.

 

Those more interested in the cultural aspects of this document, rather than the genealogy, might want to skip first to the section entitled “Almost a Pioneer.”

 

William R. Hurst


WHEELER HISTORY

 

Being the next eldest in a rather large connection, many times they come to me asking about family names and birth places. Some one of them suggested that my memoirs should be written as my life has taken me in many places and among many kinds of people.

 

My maiden name was Wheeler and my people came from the eastern shore of Maryland.[1] Their forebears were in turn English and Scotch‑Irish.[2]

 

There were three Wheeler brothers[3] who set out from Maryland to do a little pioneering. They sailed down the Chesapeake Bay in some kind of boat. I suppose they had their own provision and some kind of equipment. They kept a log of the trip. This log is still in possession of one of my cousins, Vice‑Admiral W. J. Wheeler, who lives on Cloncurry Road, Norfolk, Virginia. They were men of some education for one of them was writing a textbook of Geometry which Cousin Will still possesses.[4] They landed on the coast of North Carolina and decided to cross the country and explore the mountains.

 

They eventually settled in what is now Grayson County.[5] My Great Grandfather married and his children were born there or abouts.[6] One of the three brothers, Andrew, never married.[7] The other brother married and had a family of some size and some of the cousins used to visit us.[8] One of the cousins was Rufus, a Methodist preacher and another was Turner.[9]

 

Vincent Wheeler[10] was our great grandfather's name and his wife's name was Rebecca.[11] They were the parents of Charles Pincney,[12] Walter Raleigh,[13] Newton Henry,[14] Samuel H.,[15] Nancy Jones,[16] Sallie Burcham,[17] Bettie Lewis,[18] Delia Johnson,[19] and Hallie Winn[20]. I give all names because some one might want to trace the relationship at some time.[21]

 

Great grandfather Wheeler married Nancy Beller Wills,[22] daughter of Hiram[23] and Mary Wills[24]. Mary Wills' maiden name was Jones and the Joneses were from North Carolina.[25]

 

Newton and Nancy Wheeler had three living children[26] ‑ Eliza Wheeler Howard,[27] William Raleigh Wheeler[28] and Samuel Vincent Wheeler.[29]

 

William Raleigh Wheeler[30] (our father) married Mary Bailey Lindsey[31] and to them were born the following children:

 

 

Emily Isabelle, born 27 Feb 1862 [32]

Eliza Jane, born 09 Jan 1865 [33]

Albert Sidney Johnson, born 23 Jul 1867 [34]

Katherine Kelly, born 02 Nov 1868 [35]

Nancy Columbia, born 16 Jun 1870 [36]

Newton Lindsey, born 10 Nov 1872 [37]

Stephen Decatur, born 01 Apr 1874 [38]

Mary Bailey, born 10 Mar 1875[39]

 

ALMOST A PIONEER

 

In thinking over my past life as a child, the days seem so much like a play ‑ sunshine, daisies, running to the shop to call Grandpa to dinner and getting the ride on his shoulder back to the house ‑ that I hardly know where to begin.

 

It's like looking for something in Grandma's scrap bag. There was every kind of material from homespun to satin and silks. Not that my Grandmother dressed in silk. Both my Grandmothers wore black alpacas for best dresses, made with full skirts, full sleeves, and tight waists, but they had silk aprons and capes edged with lace and velvet. They both wore dainty white caps tied under their chins and they both smoked pipes, as did all the other old ladies in our neighborhood.

 

I asked one of my Grandmothers when she began smoking a pipe and wearing caps. Of course, I had in mind when I was to begin. She said she began wearing caps when she married. It was a sort of badge to her matronhood and with it came smoking. Practically all married women smoked, I suppose just as women now smoke cigarettes, but not in public. Our kitchen, like many of the houses built in slave times, was not connected with the main house. The fire in the kitchen never went out and matches were expensive, so one of my chores was to light Grandma's pipe. To do this I had to run to the kitchen after she had put in the tobacco and put a live coal on top and take a puff or two to keep it burning until I handed it to her. This never created in me the least desire to smoke, but always the wonder of how she could stand it even if it were the correct thing for married ladies.

 

Ours was a large family and I was next to the oldest. We were farm people living twenty miles from the county seat of Wythe County[40] and about ten miles from Hillsville,[41] the county seat on the other side. There were no surfaced roads and few carriages, as they could not stand the roads in anything but good weather.

 

Our farm[42] was jointly owned by my father,[43] his brother,[44] and my grandfather.[45] It was located on Little Reed Island.[46] On this creek was located our saw and grist mills, also a shop where my grandfather worked. My grandfather was a very useful man in the community. He made tubs, buckets, barrels, furniture ‑ in fact almost anything that was needed. He also made all the coffins that were needed in that part of the county. They were made of well‑seasoned walnut and he had one special drawer where he kept his linings and velvet for edgings, silver handles, and screw tops or what I thought was silver. He also pulled all the aching teeth in the community. Added to that, he was a magistrate, so our place was quite a community center.

 

There was a mill pond to impound the water for running the mills, and ice was cut from the pond in the winter. Having ice, we took as a matter of course, but when the neighbors came during hot weather and made such an ado over the ice water, we naturally began to think it was quite a luxury. We always furnished ice for the sick people of the neighborhood. They used to come five and six miles on horse‑back to get sacks of ice. In later years I have wondered why we did not have ice cream. There was only one occasion when it is said we had ice cream, and that was when my uncle was married.[47] They went some distance and borrowed an ice cream freezer. Evidently they didn't know one could make it in buckets with salt and ice packed around.

 

I was born the year of Lee's surrender, 1865, and I know now that times must have been pretty hard for the family, but personally I remember only one scarcity, and that was sugar, and I heard the older people talk about using rye for coffee.

 

Our father's family did not own slaves[48] and disapproved of slavery most heartily but were strong for State Rights. My father and his brother volunteered in the Southern Army,[49] leaving grandpa to run the farm and mills as best he could. Of course heavy household burdens fell on our mother's shoulders and she was only about twenty‑three.[50]

 

All the clothing for the family was spun and woven in the home. My mother also did the sewing, even to making the men's clothes. Grandpa would not wear any hat except one that she made. Of course, when he went to church or court he wore a high top beaver. I still have blankets, coverlets, and table linen that mother wove.

 

Every two years or less there was a new baby added to the household. Aunt Hannah, the nurse, always brought them so we were told. I used to wonder how anyone as black as Aunt Hannah[51] could bring white babies.

 

Out of eleven brothers and sisters (two half sisters and a half brother by my father's second marriage), I had a sister[52] three years older than I and a brother[53] two years younger who were my playmates. I always preferred to play with my brother as his games were more rowdy and he never argued with me about climbing trees or investigating strange places as my sister was inclined to do. I was constantly climbing to places from which I had to be rescued. When I was five, I remember climbing to the top of my uncle's house,[54] which was in the course of erection. The house was two and a half stories high and had just been covered. I was sitting calmly viewing the landscape when I was caught from behind and unceremoniously carried down the ladder which had been left against the house. I received a sharp spanking which I richly deserved, but a high place has always been challenging to me.

 

As I said before, I am sure that our family must have felt the pinch of the war, but to us children the war was just as remote as it is to any child today. Of course we heard it talked, and a most frequent phrase was "before the war." I have heard the family describe a most heart‑rending scene at home. The grist mill was a large three‑storied building and in the lower story or basement were the weaving implements, warping bars, loom, etc. By strict economy and pinching my mother had saved enough money to buy cotton thread to weave a web of cloth for the family winter clothes and it had been warped and was ready to put in the loom. My mother breathed a sigh of relief as she closed the door of the basement and thought how long it had taken her to spin and dye the wool and cotton and now everything was ready for her weaving, which meant new clothes for the family for they were in need. The next morning when she went down to the mill to put her web into the loom, she found that someone had stolen it from the warping bars. I have heard my mother say that was the only time that utter despair came over her. This was before I was born.

 

It was not until I was grown that I understood what it was that made a difference between our family and some of the neighbors. It was the fact that some of them were slave owners and we were not. That created a social difference. The other difference was that my people were reading people. They bought books and subscribed for papers and magazines. Books were hard to get and very expensive in those days. My father used to go to Wytheville and bring back sacks full of books, new and old. I remember once when he went to town and was to buy me a piano but came back with a load of books, much to my disgust. He not only bought the books, but he made us read them or he read them to us. He read aloud all of Scott's novels, Dickens', and many others in the long winter evenings. They are still happy memories to me. Someone would bring up a basket of apples and after lessons Father would bring out the unfinished novel. The books suggested so many subjects of interest.

 

Two or three incidents stand out in my memory which give an insight as to how we lived in this remote section. I know now that it was very like pioneer life. On one occasion it seemed that all the Wheeler relatives that I had ever heard of were gathered at our house. On Sunday morning there was a great commotion and they came helping an uncle who was a preacher[55] to bed where he was given medical attention. I heard someone say that a horse had kicked him; however, the whole cavalcade were soon all ready to depart, leaving me screaming because I could not go along. I was afterward told that the occasion was the funeral of my great grandfather who had died some two years before.[56] Think of waiting that long for a funeral sermon. Fortunately, they had buried the old gentleman when he died.

 

My mother's people were also small farmers and opposed slavery. We children used to take turns staying weeks at a time with Grandpa Lindsey.[57] He was not a man that children would love for he seldom spoke to us, but he had his good points. He was firmly entrenched behind a sense of justice, but I never thought there was much mercy in his philosophy of life. He was musical and played the flute. I remember seeing him many times come in from his work, get out his old songbooks, and sing first the round notes[58] and then the words, at the same time keeping time with his hand.

 

My first knowledge of taxes was when I heard grandfather argue with the tax collector about his taxes, especially for public schools. I remember when we first had public schools in Virginia, and I suppose he was grumbling about having to pay taxes for his neighbor's children when his were all grown and gone from home. Evidently he was not a man of vision, but few of us are when it comes to our pocketbooks.

 

Grandma Lindsey[59] was Irish. Her maiden name was Kelly and her father had come to America during a potato famine in Ireland.[60] I do not know the year. Grandma had a clever Irish wit and a sharp tongue. Her vocabulary was enriched by many words evidently from her Irish people. Old horses were always 'garrons,'[61] old bachelors, old 'flousters.'[62] Her witty retorts were quoted all over the neighborhood, often to my embarrassment as I thought they were making fun of her.

 

Much is said these days by students of psychology about being careful never to let small children know of the worries of the family. Our parents must have unconsciously sensed this for we never knew that there was anything more than we had to be desired. To us, the world was complete. We had the run of the orchard, the mill yard, gardens, and Grandpa's shop, and as we grew a little older, fishing below the mill dam. We never caught anything but minnows, but the fun was in feeling the tug at the other end of the line.

 

There are two incidents that stand out in my memory that happened at about this age of my life. Uncle Sam, my father's brother, married and brought his bride home. There was what was called in those days an "infare",[63] and now we call it a "reception". All the neighbors were invited and a most sumptuous feast prepared. A special cook was brought in to bake the cakes. Light bread was baked; hams, chickens, and anything else that could be provided in the country were prepared. Also, the guests made much ado about the ice cream that was served as few of them had ever seen any before, much less tasted it. The thing that impressed me most was the bride and groom sitting under the lilacs reading poetry. I had never seen anyone take that much time off and dedicate it purely to joy and love making.

 

Another incident varied our monotonous lives. One Saturday afternoon we had been bathed and dressed in clean garments and told to go play while the baby[64] was being bathed and the kitchen put to order. As usual, we strolled toward the mill. I spied a large iron kettle in the furnace where the wool had recently been dyed and some of the dye was left in the kettle. It seemed a good time to see how slippers would look on our feet. We never had any kind of shoes except copper‑toed ones. Of course, the neighborhood children had the same kind which was small comfort when one yearned for slippers. We proceeded to sit on the edge of the furnace which was sunken in the ground, and carried three large kettles made of iron. These kettles served to boil the family laundry, and to color the wool and cotton when needed for weaving. After we had tried slippers in the black dye, we tried high shoes. Then my brother decided he wanted boots like the team drivers wore. Someone splashed and the fun was on. If you could have seen our clothes! We heard voices and someone approaching from the house, and we ran for the creek. Only my brother falling into the mill race and having to be rescued from drowning saved us from a well-deserved spanking.

 

Our home was not elegantly, but comfortably furnished. It was mostly walnut and cherry furniture made by traveling cabinet makers. They would use Grandpa's shop and I suppose taught him much that he knew about furniture making. We had lovely four‑poster and empire bedsteads, bureaus, bookcases, dropleaf tables, and candle stands. All the beds had huge feather beds on top of straw ticks, except the trundle bed which my sister and I slept in. This bed was low and pushed under mother's bed which was a four‑poster. Over our straw tick was a large black fur robe which made a most comfortable bed. However, if a bit of the fur showed I would start screaming like mad. I was never afraid unless I saw the fur. Our sheets were all home woven linen except the ones on the guest beds. In this day and time we reverse things.

 

Grandpa Wheeler was a man of few words and very direct approach. He had one of the strongest personalities I have ever known. He was not a lovable man, but was one whose opinion was deeply respected and one whose approval was sought. We children adored him and he in turn catered to our whims. My brother was the first grandson and was also a very precocious child, which made grandpa prophesy that some day he would be president.[65] There being no Roosevelt then, we children always believed him.

 

I started to school when I was five years old and the only thing that approached learning so far as I was concerned was being called to the teacher's side and told to repeat the alphabet as he would point to them with his open knife. I had learned them by name, so that was easy. I literally gnawed the corners off two blue‑backed spellers before I approached what was known as the spelling class. We had no charts, no globes, no pictures or anything that would interest a child. The wonder to me is how we ever learned anything.

 

A little girl about my age and size used to sit by me in school and my only interest in school was to ask the teacher if we might "to out". Once we were out, we hunted pretty pebbles which were in abundance on the knob where the school building sat. We loaded our pockets with these stones much to the annoyance of our mothers. One occasion while out we decided to exchange dresses and see if the teacher would know the difference. He did not, but the pupils did and raised such a commotion that school was brought to a sudden halt and we were ordered to a corner of the room and told to resume our own clothes. It was no strip tease for us, but bitter humiliation. Nor did it end there. The story was told over the neighborhood and thought to be a great joke.

 

Of course we walked to and from school as it was only about a mile and a half. This was never a hardship to us as there was so much to see and do along the way. We lived on the Greenbriar Highway[66] leading into North Carolina, and that was as far as we ever knew about it. There were droves of horses going into North Carolina. I have in later life wondered where they were going and what their purpose was. There were groups of lawyers going to and coming from Hillsville to court once a month. We seldom saw dressed up gentlemen. Then there was the hill where the doodle bugs lived and could be called up by singing a little song.[67] There were bird's nests in the summer and chestnuts in the fall. Then best of all, the long red hill where we could hold up our skirts and slide down. It took a long time for me to understand how Mother could know about this delightful pastime.

 

My grandmother[68] was the most Christ‑like person I have ever known. I do not remember to have ever seen her angry or heard her raise her voice, except to call someone. She it was who taught us to pray and not to quarrel. My mother was a lovely person too, but there was every two years a new baby and all the burden of the household on her shoulders. She usually had a nurse and a woman came every week to do the laundry. There was always a drove of cows, five or six, a gaggle of geese and ducks that had to be picked every few weeks or maybe it was months, chickens to be cared for, flax to be spun, also wool which had to be woven and sewed into garments. All this besides the knitting for this ever‑growing family. Mother was a beautiful seamstress and for a number of years her trousseau furnished my sister and me with our Sunday clothes, one of her dresses making us both a dress. I never remember seeing her sit idly except on Sundays when she read to us or told us stories.

 

Our house was the home of the preacher when he came once a month on his circuit to preach at what was the schoolhouse and church both. It was my mother's hands that made the sacrament bread and, I suppose, the wine. We were brought up in the old fashioned Methodist way and were not allowed to play rowdy games on Sunday or to cut with the scissors, use a needle, or do anything that savored of work. The only workaday jobs that were ever done on Sunday was when Grandpa made a coffin in an emergency.

 

All of our cooking at that time was done on a big open fireplace. The coffee was pounded in a mortar such as druggists use. Hooks, poker, and shovel were the tools used in cooking. Fires for cooking were made early so there would be plenty of hot coals. On Saturday preparation was made for Sunday. Chickens were dressed or a ham was boned, light bread was baked, a stack of pies and cake were made, and if none were on hand, a big crock of cucumber pickles was made. There was always a tub in brine if there were none in the garden, so company coming home with us for Sunday dinner disturbed no one.

 

We had church once a month only unless a local preacher volunteered his services, but to this day I remember some of the texts and subjects. One I remember was "Our Vines Have Tender Grapes". It seemed odd to me that I should have heard it as a text for a sermon and seventy‑five years later see it as the title of a movie,[69] however, it was good in both places.

 

Saturday afternoon or Saturday night was bathtime in our family. The kitchen was made warm, the big brass kettle and the tea kettles were filled with water and the wooden bath tub was brought in and everyone took turns. Of course, we children were supervised for Saturday baths were rituals. Bath night for us was a gala night.

 

Saturday was also a day we sent for the mail. The post office[70] was four miles away. This also was an event, for most of the papers and magazines had pictures in them and there was an occasional letter which was read to whomever it was addressed, stuck up behind the clock and pulled out and read by anyone interested. These letters from absent relatives were our most exciting events except an occasional visit back home by them. Then we had the grape‑vine telegraph. I remember how a neighbor would ride out of his way after coming from town to tell of some national event such as an assassination of a public figure.

 

In those days there was little opportunity for young men of small means, so as they grew up they went west, which meant Ohio, Illinois, or Indiana. This, all my mother's brothers did. They taught school until they got money enough and all went to Illinois. The oldest brother became a well-known lawyer and judge. He was the partner of William Jennings Bryan's father in Chester, Illinois.[71]

 

All our teachers were greatly respected by our parents and feared by the children. They walked about the schoolroom with a long hickory in their hands which they used as a pointer, but one never knew how quickly it might turn into an instrument of torture. If we came under the displeasure of our teachers, we got little sympathy at home and were always told that if we obeyed the teacher we would not be in trouble.

 

When I was about eight years old my father sold his interest to his brother and bought a large farm four miles closer to the county seat.[72] Here we all assumed some degree of responsibility in the home. Mine was to supply the family with drinking water. This was no hard job in the winter, but in warm weather, it seemed to me that every time anyone saw me they were immediately seized with a great thirst. Ever since then I have always had a great sympathy for the waterboy on public works. Some years ago I visited the old home and was amazed to see how short the distance was to the spring. In my memory it seemed at least a half mile from the dwelling.

 

I lost my mother when I was ten years old and we children grew up under the guidance of a Grandmother, housekeeper and Stepmother[73] and such guidance as a very busy father could give us. I pause here to say that we never went to him for advice but that he directed us well and to his children he was the fount of all knowledge and we always felt that if Pa said so that we need ask no further.

 

The thing that we all needed as we grew up was some form of recreation. I think that would have stood for the whole community in which we lived and I really think the Puritans had nothing on us in that respect. In our country community there was nothing outside of the home. In Carroll County about eight miles above our old home there was an Ironside Baptist Church which held a Footwashing meeting every summer. Practically every one for miles around went, few of them with any religious motive, but merely to be with the crowd. Few of them heard the preaching. The gay young men gambled, horse raced and so forth and the meeting was always followed by a long list of the young men being indicted for disturbing public worship. However, they went through the same performance the next year.

 

When one considers the many forms of amusement that we have now and compares with the long, dreary months of country life it is little wonder that young people went astray searching for amusement.

 

In due course of time I grew up to young woman‑hood, had the usual life of a country girl trying to see a prince charming in all the young men who paid me any attention.

 

After finishing school I taught four years. During the last year of college life my father sold his possessions in Virginia and moved to Tennessee.[74] In fact there was something of an exodus from our part of the state, Pulaski and Wythe. It was being developed into a mining country. Two or three blast furnaces were built, every one was hauling ore, selling their mineral rights or the farms, for what seemed to us fabulous prices. They seemed to discover every known mineral in that vicinity. No one had ever heard of Uranium at that time or I am sure they would have found that too. There was one that Father found in our orchard with which we polished the stove and the dogirons.

 

Shortly after moving to Tennessee, I met my husband to‑be and was married. (29 years).

 

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The above was written by Eliza Jane (Jennie) Wheeler.[75] She was the daughter of William Raleigh Wheeler, the granddaughter of Newton Wheeler and the great granddaughter of Vincent Wheeler, born in Maryland. Having been born on January 9, 1865, she lived at High Rock in the extreme southeastern section of Wythe County until her family moved when she was eight years old. The writer was married to Joseph Patton Davis in Knoxville, Tennessee, by the Rev. Harrison[76] of the Second Presbyterian Church, October 23, 1889. To them four children were born: William Harold, Joseph Baxter,[77] Sidney Wheeler, and Charles Vance. Mrs. Davis was a teacher at Emory and Henry.[78] She died in 1956 at the age of ninety‑one.[79]

 



[1] Dorchester County, Maryland. Probably our first Wheeler ancestor in America, Henry Wheeler, was born, probably in England, between 1620 and 1630. He died in Dorchester County in 1697. The Wheeler’s stayed in Maryland for almost 150 years.

[2] At least one Internet genealogy, no longer online, traced the family directly back to Henry Wiehler born in Britain in 819. The Wheelers were not Scotch-Irish, although some other ancestral branches may have been.

[3] Besides the three brothers discussed below, their mother and four sisters left Maryland either at the same time or later. Their father was Charles Wheeler, born 1742 and died 1786 in Dorchester County. Their mother was probably named Sarah Vincent, at least according to a sketch left by Rufus Wheeler. There was a Charles Wheeler who married a Sarah Woolford in Dorchester County, but that marriage was in 1791. Sarah Vincent was born in 1747 in Dorchester County and died in 1813 in Rockingham County, North Carolina. All the sisters were probably born in Dorchester County. Sister Sarah was born in 1762 and married Henry Mills. They were next door to mother Sarah in the 1810 Rockingham County census, with two sons. Their grandson John H. Mills married his second cousin Nancy Wheeler in 1864. Sister Delilah was born in 1780 and married Dennis Fielder on March 2, 1806. They had at least six children and probably have living descendants. Eliney was born about 1782. Milley was born about 1784.

[4] There are several living descendants of William Joseph Wheeler (1875-1974), but they do not know about the log or geometry text. William was a son of Samuel Vincent Wheeler who will be discussed later. William married Clarice Livingstone (1893-1972), whose father Colin Livingstone was the first national president of the Boy Scouts. William was a Rear Admiral in the Coast Guard; he possibly held a temporary rank of Vice Admiral. He was at times commander of several Coast Guard vessels, the International Ice Patrol, the anti-smuggling patrol, and the Inspector in Chief. He received the Navy Cross for his actions in World War I. William and Clarice are buried in Arlington National Cemetery. His brother, Charles Augustus Wheeler (1968-1934), was a Captain in the Coast Guard, also possibly holding a temporary Vice Admiral rank. Charles, who married Rosa L. (variously call Rose or Reba) Fisher, is also buried in Arlington National Cemetery, not far from his brother, where his tombstone incorrectly says he lived until age 115!

[5] Actually they eventually settled in areas which were then Grayson County, Virginia, but Jennie’s ancestors came to the part of Grayson which became Carroll Count in 1842. But they stopped first in Rockingham County, North Carolina, in about 1794.

[6] Eight of her great grandfather Vincent Wheeler’s children were born in Rockingham County; the last four were born in Grayson County, Virginia.

[7] The three brothers were Vincent, Anthony, and Ezekiel. All three had children. Andrew Martin Wheeler was not a brother, but a son of Vincent. Andrew was born on September 18, 1800 in Rockingham County, North Carolina, and died in 1872 in Giles County, Virginia. He married Nancy Carrow and had eight children. There are numerous descendants of this couple. Ezekiel Wheeler was born in 1765 in Dorchester County and apparently lived out his life in Rockingham County, being the only brother who did not move to Virginia. He had at least four children, Ezekiel Jr., Thomas B., Carolina, and Levin. Thomas B. Wheeler was the Rockingham County Court Clerk from about 1844 to 1851. Ezekiel Jr.’s family mostly remained in Rockingham Co. Levin Wheeler took his family to DeSoto County, Mississippi, where descendants still live.

[8] The “other brother” was Anthony Wheeler, born in 1772 in Dorchester County; died in 1852 in Grayson County. He and his wife Joannah Jones had seven children, Mary, Cenia, Deborah W., Lucinda, Permelia, Charles J., and George Washington. George Washington Wheeler moved to Kentucky and became a doctor.

[9] Rufus Martin Wheeler (b. 1847, Carroll County, Virginia) and Turner Bascom Wheeler (b. 1849, Carroll County; d. 1910) were not, as Aunt Jennie implied, the sons of Anthony, but of Vincent’s son Henry Porter Wheeler. Turner married Mary Arabella Combs, who was the daughter of John Combs and Penninah Jane Bellar. Penninah was the daughter of Elias Bellar (Bellar/Beller, a take-your-pick name) and Nancy Wills, whose second husband was Newton Wheeler.

[10] Vincent Wheeler was born in Dorchester County on November 24, 1767 and died in Carroll County in 1854. He lived at Flower Gap in Carroll, where Wheeler Knob was apparently named after the family.

[11] Rebecca Richmond was born August 8, 1879 in North Carolina and died in 1864 in Carroll County. She was the daughter of Walter Martin (d. 1792 in Rockingham County) and Sarah Richmond.

[12] Charles Pincney (or Pinkney) Wheeler was born August 28, 1807, in Rockingham County. Never married, he was in Carroll County in 1842 and was living with his widowed mother in Tazewell County, Virginia in 1860. In 1870 and 1880 he lived with the family of his brother-in-law William Wynn.

[13] Walter Raleigh Wheeler was born January 20, 1812, in Rockingham County, and died on February 24, 1877, in Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana. According to Rufus Wheeler, he married twice. He first married Elizabeth Stubbs and had two children. After Elizabeth died in 1851 in Preble County, Ohio, Walter married Mary P. Stanley in 1853. There were three children from the second marriage.

[14] Both versions of this document list “Newton Henry.” Since no other source has a middle name for Newton Wheeler, and since Aunt Jennie omits Henry Porter Wheeler – while mentioning his two sons, Rufus and Turner – my guess is that a comma is missing between Newton and Henry in her list. However, this theory does leave Newton as the only brother without a middle name. Newton was born September 27, 1804, in Rockingham County, and died September 29, 1885, in Wythe County, Virginia. Henry Porter Wheeler was born April 11, 1814, in Rockingham County, and died January 20, 1894, in Mercer County, West Virginia. He married Bathsheba Branscome on December 22, 1844 in Carroll County. They had eight children.

[15] “Samuel H.” was actually Samuel Ruffin Wheeler, born November 17, 1816, in Grayson County, and died in 1890 in Alderson, Greenbrier County, West Virginia. He first married Elizabeth Jones in 1842 in Wythe County. They had five children. He next married Margaret Ramsbarger on November 6, 1882, with no children. He was a Methodist minister, as was his son Vincent Whaley Wheeler. The latter’s descendants include former mayors of Roanoke and Clifton Forge, Virginia.

[16] Nancy Wheeler was born January 9, 1803, in Rockingham County, and is reported to have died April 9, 1879, in Mechanicsburg, Sangamon County, Illinois. However, she was in the 1880 census. She was never a “Jones,” having married Reuben Burcham on April 22, 1823. They had seven children.

[17] “Sallie Burcham” was actually Sarah Wheeler, born December 7, 1798, in Rockingham County, and died in Grayson County.  She married Edward Jones, another Methodist minister, on April 23, 1816. Aunt Jennie has simply confused the married names of Nancy and Sarah. Rev. Edward Jones presided at many Wheeler weddings, including that of Newton and Nancy.

[18] Bettie Lewis was Elizabeth Wheeler, born May 10, 1809, in Rockingham County, and died November 20, 1881, in Surry County, North Carolina. She married Argelon G. Lewis on February 28, 1833 in Grayson County. They had nine children.

[19] Delia Johnson was born Delia Wheeler on December 19, 1819, in Grayson County. She married Lewis Martin Johnson on November 19, 1846, in Carroll County. Delia had a twin sister, not listed by Aunt Jennie, Elina Wheeler, who married Reziah (or Bil or Zil) Johnson.

[20] “Hallie Winn” was Emilla Wheeler, born March 18, 1822, in Grayson County. She married William Wynn (this spelling is found in all census records) on July 24, 1856, in Giles County, Virginia. Her name is variously spelled “Camilla,” “Milly,” and “Emillie.” They had at least nine children. Emilla died between 1870 and 1880.

[22] “Nancy Beller Wills” is more properly Nancy Wills Bellar. She was born March 24, 1802, in Grayson County. She first married Elias Bellar (both spellings are seen) on February 7, 1822. They had three daughters. Penninah Jane married John Combs. Caroline married Jesse Morris. Rachel married Samuel Morris. After Elias Bellar died, Nancy married Newton Wheeler on September 20, 1831, in Grayson County.

[23] Hiram Wills (often spelled Wells) was born about 1774 in Virginia, and died probably in Carroll County on November 4, 1857.

[24] Mary Wills was born Mary Jones in Virginia in about 1775 and died probably in Wythe County on June 15, 1861. Her parents were John Jones, Sr., and Nancy Webb. John was originally from Morris County, New Jersey; Nancy’s ancestors were early settlers in Virginia. One of Mary’s brothers was the Edward Jones above who married Nancy Wheeler. Another brother John Jones, Jr., had a daughter, Elizabeth, who married Samuel Ruffin Wheeler above. There were thus three Wheeler-Jones connections. Descendants of Newton and Samuel Ruffin always have two connections; I’ve met one “fourth/fifth” cousin.

[25] As far as I know, the Jones family stayed in that portion of Grayson County which became Carroll County, after migrating from New Jersey.

[26] Besides the three living children, there were two who died young. Henry Clay Wheeler was born April 8, 1843 and died October 24, 1844. Mary Wheeler was born October 24, 1844. Both were probably born in either Carroll or Wythe counties. There is much uncertainty about their birth and death dates.

[27] Eliza A. Wheeler was born August 8, 1833, in Grayson County, and died on February 10, 1920, in Richmond, Wayne County, Indiana. She married Robert Anderson Howard on December 13, 1854, in Wythe County, and had two children, Lillian Augusta and Mary Isabel. Robert was the County Surveyor of Wayne County for about 30 years.

[28] William Raleigh Wheeler, Aunt Jennie’s father, was born on February 21, 1834, in Grayson County (sometimes listed as Carroll County, which did not then exist), and died August 12, 1918, in Pulaski County, Virginia. He served as the quartermaster sergeant of Company B, 51st Virginia Infantry, CSA, and participated in many major battles such as the siege of Fort Donelson, New Market, Cold Harbor, Cedar Creek, and the attack on Washington, DC. Cousin Vincent Whaley Wheeler was also in the 51st  VA. William is buried in the Runyon Family Cemetery in Pulaski County.

[29] Samuel Vincent Wheeler, who was also in the 51st VA, was born April 5, 1838, in Grayson County, and died February 4, 1926, in Hamblen County, Tennessee. He married Mary Jane Baker on September 11, 1867, in Wythe County. Two of his sons were the Coast Guard officers mentioned above. The others were Robert Lee (whose descendants live in Oklahoma) and George Burton. Samuel and Mary Jane and son George are buried in the Bethesda Church Cemetery, Hamblen County (as are several of those below).

[31] Mary Bailey Lindsey was born on November 10, 1841, in Pulaski County, and died March 16, 1875, ten days after her youngest daughter was born. She became William Raleigh Wheeler’s first wife on May 5, 1861, in Pulaski County. Mary is buried in the Calfee-Wheeler Cemetery in Wythe County.

[32] Emily Isabelle Wheeler (known as Belle) was born in Wythe County and was probably named after her mother’s sister, Emily Mallager Lindsey. She died at age 101 on April 24, 1963, in Morristown, Hamblen County, Tennessee. She married William Thomas Hurst (1850-1914), who grew up less than two miles from the Wheelers, on May 26, 1880, in Pulaski County. They had eight children. Belle and William are buried in the Bethesda Church Cemetery.

[33] Eliza Jane Wheeler, the author of this document, was born in Wythe County and died June 5, 1956, probably in Hamblen County. She and several of her family are buried in the Bethesda Church Cemetery.

[34] Albert Sidney Johnston “Sid” Wheeler was born in Wythe County and was named after the famous Confederate General (the “t” in Johnston is missing in both versions). He died at age 90 on February 27, 1958, in Hopewell, Virginia. His wife was Frances Jeanette Runyon; they had six children, including William Raleigh Wheeler II. They have many living descendants. Sid and Jeanette are buried in the St John’s Episcopal Church Cemetery in Hopewell.

[35] Katherine Kelly Wheeler was born in Wythe County and was named after her grandmother, Catherine Kelly Lindsey. Never married, she died January 15, 1935, in Washington County, Virginia, and is buried in the Bethesda Church Cemetery.

[36] Nancy Columbia Wheeler (known as Nannie) was born in Wythe County and died on July 24, 1961. She married Emmit Edward Malcom and had four children. Nannie and Emmit and two of their children are buried in the Mt. Pleasant United Methodist Church Cemetery in Jefferson County, Tennessee, for which they donated land and upkeep.

[37] Newton Lindsey Wheeler (spelled Lindsay in one version of the document) was born and died in Wythe County. His middle name was from his mother’s family name. He is buried in the Calfee-Wheeler Cemetery with his mother, where his tombstone has his dates as November 17, 1772 and February 25, 1882.

[38] Stephen Decatur Wheeler was born in Wythe County and died young on July 1, 1884.

[39] Mary “Bailey” Wheeler was born in Wythe County on the day her mother died. Marriage and census records all have her name as Mary F. She married William Gott on March 29, 1899, in Pulaski County. They had six children. William and Mary are buried in the Newbern Cemetery, Pulaski County.

[40] The county seat of Wythe County was and is Wytheville.

[41] Hillsville is the county seat of Carroll County

[42] The farmhouse still stands about one mile south of Patterson, Wythe County, Virginia, which is at the intersection of Virginia routes 100 and 607. The area has been called High Rocks Mill or High Rocks Forge. It was sold about 1886 to the Quesenberry family which still owns it. In the 1920 census it was listed as dwelling number 116 on Greenbriar Road and was the residence of the Gabriel Quesenberry family. On the hill behind the house are the tombstones of Newton Wheeler, Nancy Wills Bellar Wheeler, Hiram Wills, and Mary Jones Wills.

[43] William Raleigh Wheeler

[44] Samuel Vincent Wheeler

[45] Newton Wheeler

[46] Little Reed Island Creek begins in Carroll County, runs northeast through the southeastern corner of  Wythe County, then into Pulaski County, ending at Big Reed Island Creek, just before that creek empties into the New River, which runs through West Virginia to the Ohio River.

[47] Samuel Vincent Wheeler married Mary Jane Baker on September 11, 1867, in Wythe County.

[48] According to the Memoir of Vincent Whaley Wheeler in the 1917 Minutes of the Baltimore Annual Methodist Conference, Charles Wheeler (Aunt Jennie’s great great grandfather) of Maryland freed all his slaves when he became a Methodist. According to a Dorchester County, Maryland, deed, his widow Sarah had freed her slaves on August 19, 1788. I did find that Sarah is listed in the Rockingham County 1800 census as owning one slave.

[49] William R. Wheeler and Samuel V. Wheeler enlisted at Wytheville on July 31, 1861.

[50] Mary Bailey Lindsey Wheeler was actually 19 when her husband enlisted.

[51]There was a black family four houses away in the 1870 Wythe census consisting of York and Hannah Watson, both born in North Carolina. Hanna was age 50. Perhaps she was the nurse.

[52] Emily Isabelle Wheeler, later known as Belle.

[53] Albert Sidney Johnston Wheeler, known as Sid.

[54] At the time of the 1870 census, Newton Wheeler is living in dwelling 43, William R. in dwelling 44, and Samuel V. in dwelling 26, all in the Speedwell Township of Wythe Co. William T. Hurst was with his parents in dwelling 38.

[55] Perhaps this was her great uncle Samuel Ruffin Wheeler, born November 17, 1816, in Grayson County, died 1890 in Alderson, Greenbrier County, West Virginia. He was a Methodist minister, as was his son Vincent Whaley Wheeler.

[56] Great grandfather Vincent Wheeler had died in 1854, so she could not mean him. Great grandfather Hiram Wills had died in 1857, still too early. Great grandfather Henry Lindsey had died in 1845. Great grandfather John Kelly had died even earlier, in 1824.

[57] Jesse Lindsey was born, probably in Carroll County, on January 29, 1799, and died in Pulaski County on April 8, 1875. He is buried in the Calfee-Wheeler Cemetery in Wythe. He married Catherine Kelly on January 20, 1830 in Wythe.

[58] “Round notes” are the normal method of indicating the pitch of the notes by their position on a musical staff, in contrast to “shaped notes,” which use different shapes of the head of the notes to indicate their pitch. The shaped note system was often used for church singing. Aunt Jennie was informing us that Grandpa Lindsey could read music.

[59] Catherine Kelly was born in Virginia, probably Wythe County, on August 8, 1807.  She was living with her husband Jesse Lindsey on Big Reed Island Creek in Pulaski County when he died in 1875.  On June 2, 1875, she sold the 90.5 acres bought by her husband 48 years before. She was living as a widow with her son-in-law William R. Wheeler’s family in 1880 in Pulaski.

[60] A notebook kept by Emily Belle Wheeler Hurst states that Kelly came to America during a potato famine in Ireland after a twin brother had died from eating food made from frozen potatoes. Kelly’s wife was a Cummins, also according to the notebook. Based on matching mitochondrial DNA tests taken by direct maternal descendants of Catherine Kelly Lindsey and Martha Kelly Runyon, the mother of Eliza Jane Runyon, the second wife of William R. Wheeler, and some traditional genealogical research, Catherine's and Martha's mother was Elizabeth Cummins.

[61] The online Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary defines “garron” as a Scottish and Irish word for “a small sturdy workhorse.”

[62] Unable to find a definition for “flouster.”

[63] Merriam-Webster’s defines “infare” specifically as “a reception for a newly married couple.” As noted earlier, the wedding was on September 11, 1867, when Aunt Jennie was only two years old.

[64] Not sure which of her younger siblings she means here.

[65] Well, maybe he didn’t become President. Sid Wheeler did become the city sergeant, equivalent to a county sheriff, and a leading citizen of Hopewell, Virginia.

[66] The Greenbriar Highway has now been replaced by the Wysor Highway or Virginia Route 100. In the other version of this document, the name is spelled Treenfriar, but the 1920 census and current maps show it as Greenbriar Road.

[67] Doodle bugs, or antlions, have their own website. According to this site, doodle bugs may be stirred into action by dangling a blade of grass into their pit, or by a puff of air. Probably singing a song close to the pit produced the puff of air.

[68]I assume she meant Nancy Wills Bellar Wheeler, since she had discussed her other grandmother Catherine Kelly Lindsey earlier.

[69]The film “Our Vines Have Tender Grapes” starring Margaret O’Brien was released in 1945. The sermon text is from the Bible, Song of Solomon 2:15.

[70] Area post office changes were often and confusing. The nearest post office had been Reed Island, which may have been in present-day Pulaski County, until it was changed in 1859 to Barren Springs, which is about six miles north of the Wheeler home. Reed Island was back from 1869 until 1886, when it was again Barren Springs. There was a Patterson post office from 1892 to 1927. Patterson is now at the intersection of Virginia routes 100 and 607, about a mile north of the Wheeler home. There was a High Rock post office, right where the Wheelers lived, in 1835 and again in 1888-1892. The local post office is now Barron Springs.

[71] Before the Civil War, the four Lindsey brothers, William, John H., Fleming S., and Stephen D., moved to Randolph County, Illinois, of which Chester is the county seat. Fleming was in the 30th Illinois Infantry and died on November 25, 1862, in La Grange, Tennessee. Earlier that year, his regiment had been across the lines from brother-in-law William R. Wheeler’s 51st Virginia at the battle of Fort Donelson, Tennessee. Fleming is buried in the Memphis National Cemetery. John H. Lindsey, actually the second-oldest brother, was a lawyer and the County Judge of Randolph County around 1875. I have not confirmed that he was the law partner of Silas Bryan. The brothers had several children including at least seven boys. The eldest son William Lindsey, and two of his sons and a nephew, moved to California between 1888 and 1900. Stephen’s middle name may have been Decatur, as his nephew Stephen Decatur Wheeler may have been named after him. Stephen moved to Dallas, Texas. Mary Bailey Lindsey also had three sisters: Esther Jane, Nancy E., and Emily Mallager. Emily Mallager Lindsey, born June, 1846, in Pulaski County, married Charles Whitlock Hurst, who was the brother of William Thomas Hurst, the husband of Emily Belle Wheeler. The 1880 Wythe County census shows William T. Hurst and his wife (as Belle) living with Charles Hurst and his wife. The two wives were both officially “Emily Hurst,” one was no doubt named after the other, and they were both aunt and niece and sisters-in-law. Emily was living with her son Albert Floyd Hurst in 1920 in Wythe County. She died on August 7, 1933, in Pulaski. Esther Jane Lindsey married Ballard P. Hurst of the unrelated Carroll County Hurst family. They also moved to Randolph County, but also lived in Missouri. Esther was living as a widow in Pueblo County, Colorado, in 1910. Nancy E. Lindsey married Maston Bottom Hylton in 1863; they also moved to Randolph County.

[72] I do not know the location of the new house built about 1873, but it may have been near the Calfee-Wheeler Cemetery where Mary Bailey Lindsey Wheeler and her father Jesse Lindsey are buried. That cemetery is on the Wythe/Pulaski line, off Route 608 east of Barren Springs.

[73] William R. Wheeler’s second wife was Eliza Jane Runyon, born January 16, 1843. They were married in Pulaski County on June 18, 1877. They had three surviving children: Julia Anne Wheeler, born December 27, 1878, died March 25, 1957; William Tate Wheeler, born April 8, 1880, died 1922; and Lucy Edna, born January 21, 1882, died July 7, 1926. Julia married Otey Lee Gunn. Lucy married Cephas Marcellus Runyon. Both have living descendants. William Tate never married. In addition, there were male and female twins apparently still-born on December 28, 1882. In 1880, Aunt Jennie was living in Pulaski County with her father, stepmother, various full and half siblings, and her grandmother Catherine Kelly Lindsey. As previously noted, William's two wives were first cousins to each other.

[74] Around 1886, William R. Wheeler and his brother Samuel V. Wheeler, their families, including Emily Belle Wheeler Hurst and William T. Hurst, all moved to East Tennessee. William R. Wheeler was back in Pulaski County by 1900, but the others remained in Tennessee. The Hursts lived in Hawkins County, Tennessee, until after William T. died in 1914. His widow Emily Belle then moved to Hamblen County. Samuel V. Wheeler may have moved directly to Hamblen County. I only recently discovered that William R. Wheeler was listed in the 1890 special veterans' census in Hamblen County. Since that special census was supposed to have been for only Union veterans, his name was lined out and marked “Conf.”; but the information is clearly visible.

[75] This paragraph was probably written by whoever retyped the document.

[76] One version of this document has “Harrison Paxter.” The other version of the document has just “Rev. Harrison.” Based on an earlier document written by Aunt Jennie, I have used just Harrison.

[77] The other version has this middle name “Paxter.” Census records have Joseph’s middle initial as “B.”

[78] Emory and Henry College is located in Emory, Washington County, Virginia, and is affiliated with the United Methodist Church. Several Wheeler descendants have been alumni.

[79] According to census records, the Davises were back in Pulaski, Virginia, in 1900, running a hotel. In 1910, they were in Knoxville, Tennessee, where Joseph was a clothing salesman. After he died in 1918, Aunt Jennie was living with son Sidney in Hamblen County in 1920. In 1930, she was a housemother at Emory and Henry College.